Y’all, I figured since the temperature has dropped I thought it was time to talk about this single life again. Yes, I am still single. I know, shocking! I’m shocked every day. I mean I’m not Beyoncé but I am easy on the eyes, I try to keep myself together, I have a job, a side-hustle and I’m pleasant (most of the time LOL) so what is the problem?
I’m out here living life because y’all said, “he will find you.” Bruh…where is he? I’m just saying. I’ve also been sticking with these dating sites and they just keep getting worse. I’m trying to figure out if it’s me. I will not share pics with y’all because it could be your uncle, brother, cousin or daddy but it’s depressing. These men don’t even try. If you know, some of my friends ask them, they can vouch. These men just out here. That’s all I can say.
Single life for me is not okay. I know some women that are good with it. I wish I could be them sometime but I want companionship. I love hanging with my girls, but some male company is needed. He doesn’t have to be my husband, but can a girl get a date? Dinner, movies, museum visit, a concert something. Y’all know I LOVE my Hallmark Christmas movies but, I will put them on the back burner for a date.
So what is a girl to do? I feel like I’m putting myself out there kind of. I mean I’m on the dating apps. There was a time I would get on for a week and tap, but I have been on there for a while and nothing. In transparency, I have swiped right a few times but nothing. So what am I doing wrong?
Now I will admit and I think I have told y’all this before I’m shy. I know it sounds crazy especially if you have met me before but I am. Therefore, going up to a guy probably will not happen. Unless maybe I’m in a group and have had a drink or two. I get a little liquid courage. I actually had some a few weeks ago, but it didn’t pan out. Clearly, he didn’t see all my greatness. LOL!
Let me add, this is NOT a woe is me post. I’m not over here sad and depressed, so you don’t have to send me the pep talk messages. Y’all know the ones. Don’t get me wrong, I appreciate them, but I am finally at a point that my life doesn’t revolve around being single so I’m not sad I just want to go out and talk to someone other than my girls.
I’m happy & cute just single. LOL!
However, what you can do is hook me up and/or give me some tips on these dating apps because if you saw what comes up for me you would know something is missing. You can also share tips on how to approach a hottie if/when I see one out. This shyness is ruining my life. LOL!
So that’s your update I’m still out here single in these streets. I went and bought a new space heater and an electric blanket for the cold months because it’s not looking to good. LOL!
Please share any tips or advice you have in the comments…I ‘m open!
As always, thanks for reading,
Crowned CaNesha