“If we can learn to deal with our discomfort and just relax into it we’ll have a better life.”
Mellody Hobson
This is one of the hardest things I face…discomfort is scary to me. I am a creature of habit and I like to feel comfortable, so anything out of my usual routine freaks me out.
As year 40 has flown by (41 will be here in less than 2 weeks) I truly understand that time is precious and if I keep living in comfort, I am going to miss some good living.
I know there is so much more I can do, especially with blogging, but it makes me nervous even thinking about it. I have a fear of being judged, messing up and rejection.
I know that if I don’t take a chance I will never know the outcome.
I have to understand that rejection is okay, if people judge me who cares and if I mess up, I can always try again.
Life is really short and I don’t want to be 80 years old sitting on the porch with my husband (speaking it into existence LOL) or friends in my rocking chair discussing the coulda, woulda, shoulda’s.
Instead, I want to be saying HONEYYY…once I hit my 40s, I started living and I have no regrets.
In my defense, I am living more…I feel like I have begun to blossom at 40 (blog post about that later) but there is so much more I can do and I should do to make sure that I am doing everything to find and live my happy.
Have you ever done anything that made you uncomfortable and if so how did you overcome that fear?
XOXO
Crowned CaNesha